1 in 10 dads struggle with postpartum depression and anxiety, so why don’t we talk about it more?

Nikki Stevenson

Nikki Stevenson

Nikki is a parenting writer and a mom to three wild boys who keep her on her toes (and occasionally make her question her sanity). With over 15 years of experience in the parenting industry, she has more tips and tricks than Mary Poppins on speed dial. When she's not typing away at her keyboard, you can find her sipping on coffee, hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of...
Updated on Jun 14, 2024 · 5 mins read
1 in 10 dads struggle with postpartum depression and anxiety, so why don’t we talk about it more?

Having children is an incredible journey that brings both immense joy and unexpected challenges. While we often talk about postpartum depression in mothers, it’s important to remember that fathers can also experience depression during the early stages of parenthood.
Paternal depression, also known as postnatal depression in men, is a very real and significant mental health issue that deserves our attention and support.


Parenthood is a journey that we embark on together, and by shedding light on paternal depression, we hope to create a more understanding and supportive environment for all fathers. So, let’s delve into this important topic and explore the challenges and solutions surrounding paternal depression.

Understanding paternal depression


Paternal depression is a condition characterised by feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and low mood experienced by fathers during the perinatal period. It is estimated that around one in ten dads struggle with postpartum depression and anxiety. While the exact causes of paternal depression are not fully understood, several factors contribute to its development. Men can experience a range of mood disorders during the transition to fatherhood. Biological and hormonal changes during pregnancy and childbirth can impact a father’s mental well-being. Research suggests that changes in testosterone levels, along with the presence of other hormones and neurotransmitters, contribute to mood fluctuations in men. The psychological adjustments associated with becoming a parent, such as increased responsibilities, financial pressures, and changes in relationship dynamics, can also contribute to the development of paternal mood disorders.


The impact of paternal depression


Paternal depression not only affects fathers but also significantly impacts the entire family. Research has shown that depressed fathers may exhibit reduced engagement in caregiving activities, leading to potential consequences for the well-being and development of their children. Children with depressed fathers are more likely to experience behavioural problems, emotional difficulties, and physical health issues. Naturally, paternal depression can strain relationships between partners, affecting the overall family dynamic. Recognising and addressing paternal depression is essential for the well-being of fathers, their partners, and their children.


Signs to watch out for in paternal depression


While each individual may experience depression differently, here are some common indicators to watch out for:

  • Persistent sadness or feelings of hopelessness
  • Irritability or anger
  • Loss of interest in activities you once enjoyed
  • Changes in appetite or sleep patterns
  • Fatigue or low energy
  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  • Physical symptoms such as headaches or digestive issues
  • Withdrawal from family and social interactions
  • Increase in risky behaviours or substance use
  • Thoughts of self-harm or suicide

Is it normal to feel depressed when you’re going to be a dad?


Experiencing feelings of depression or anxiety during the transition to fatherhood is not uncommon. The anticipation of becoming a father can bring about a range of emotions, including excitement, joy, and apprehension. It is normal to have concerns about your partner’s well-being, parenting challenges, and the changing dynamics of your life. However, if these feelings persist or intensify and begin to interfere with your daily functioning and well-being, it may be a sign of paternal depression that requires attention and support.

Can men get the baby blues?


Yes, men can experience the “baby blues,” which is a milder form of mood disturbance compared to clinical depression. The baby blues typically emerge within the first two weeks after childbirth and are characterised by mood swings, irritability, fatigue, and tearfulness. It is essential to differentiate between the baby blues and more persistent and severe paternal depression. If symptoms persist beyond the initial two weeks or significantly impact your ability to function, it is important to seek help and support.

The role of genetics in paternal depression


There is evidence to suggest a genetic link to postpartum depression, including both maternal and paternal relatives. Individuals with a family history of depression have a higher risk of developing postpartum depression themselves. While genetics alone do not determine whether someone will experience paternal depression, they can contribute to the overall risk factors. Understanding these genetic predispositions can help identify those who may be more susceptible to paternal mood disorders and provide targeted support and interventions.

Seeking help and support for paternal depression


Recognising and addressing paternal depression is crucial for the well-being of fathers, their partners, and their children. If you are experiencing symptoms of paternal depression or have concerns about your mental health, it is important to reach out for help. Start by discussing your feelings with your partner, a trusted friend, or a family member. Seeking professional support from a healthcare provider, such as a doctor or therapist, is highly recommended. They can provide a comprehensive evaluation, offer guidance, and develop a tailored treatment plan that may include therapy, medication, or a combination of approaches.

Treatment options for paternal depression


Professional treatment may be necessary for individuals experiencing paternal depression. Therapeutic interventions, such as psychotherapy or talk therapy, can help fathers explore their emotions, develop coping strategies, and address underlying issues. Couples therapy can be beneficial when both parents are experiencing depression or when the relationship is strained. Medication may sometimes be prescribed to alleviate symptoms and support the recovery process. Complementary or alternative therapies, such as exercise, mindfulness, or relaxation techniques, can also complement traditional treatment approaches.

Supporting fathers with paternal depression


Family members, partners, and support networks are vital in helping fathers with paternal depression. Creating a supportive and understanding environment is essential. Encourage open and honest communication, actively listen to their concerns, and validate their feelings. Offer practical support by assisting with childcare responsibilities, allowing fathers time for self-care and rest, and facilitating connections with other fathers or support groups. Remember, supporting fathers in their journey towards recovery is a collective effort that benefits the entire family.

Paternal depression is a real and significant mental health concern that deserves attention and support. As a father, it’s essential to prioritise your mental well-being to navigate the challenges of fatherhood effectively. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Reach out for help, seek support from professionals and fellow fathers, and take care of yourself. Together, we can create a society where paternal depression is recognised, understood, and supported, ensuring that all fathers can embrace their role with joy and confidence.

If this article has raised anything for you, there are places you can turn to for support such as Gidget Foundation and Beyond Blue. You can also call Lifeline on 13 11 14.

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