Why sharing meals as a family is more important than you know

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Updated on Feb 05, 2025 · 6 mins read
Why sharing meals as a family is more important than you know

Mealtimes look a little different these days.


The simple evening routines that have kept families steady in past years have been flipped on their heads by takeout, TV, and busier schedules than ever before.

And hey, we’re not pointing fingers – there’s a lot to juggle in this modern era!

Sitting together at the dining table and sharing a meal can easily fall into the too-hard basket. 

But research shows that regularly eating together as a family has profound benefits—not just for nutrition, but for mental health, relationships, and even lifelong habits. Here’s why gathering around the table matters more than you might think.

 

Supports your child’s mental and emotional wellbeing


A shared meal is a moment of connection. 

Sitting down together gives kids a sense of security and routine, creating a safe space where they can open up about their day, share their thoughts, and feel heard.

Even our littlest ones benefit from this daily ritual. It helps them build confidence, strengthen their communication skills, and feel valued as part of the family. And for parents? It’s a chance to pause, be present, and truly tune into what’s going on in your child’s world.


Encourages healthier eating habits


We all want our kids to eat well—but getting them to choose veggies over hot chips ain’t always easy. 

Family mealtimes can help set the foundation for a lifetime of healthy eating. When children see their parents enjoying nutritious meals, they’re more likely to do the same.

Eating together also encourages a more balanced diet, with meals that include a variety of fruits, veggies, and whole foods. 

Plus, when kids are engaged in conversation rather than glued to a screen, they tend to be more mindful of what and how much they’re eating.


Strengthens family relationship


Do you ever feel like your family is just always passing each other by? 

Sitting down for a meal—without distractions—gives families a chance to truly connect. 

It could be a quick weekday dinner or a long, lazy Sunday lunch. Either way, these moments together help strengthen relationships, encourage conversation, and create a sense of belonging.

Helps establish healthy routines


Kids thrive on routine—it gives them a sense of stability and helps them feel in control of their world. Regular mealtimes create structure in the day, which supports everything from mood regulation to better sleep.

And let’s be honest—anything that makes evenings run a little smoother (and cuts back on bedtime battles) is a win.

 

Reduces fussy eating


If your toddler turns their nose up at anything green, you’re not alone. But instead of turning mealtimes into a battleground, eating together can encourage kids to be more adventurous with food.

When little ones see the rest of the family enjoying a variety of meals, it normalises different tastes and textures. Without pressure or bribery, they’re more likely to explore new foods at their own pace. Pretty neat, right?

Tips to have more shared meals


We’ve put together a few practical tips to make family mealtime happen.

1. Keep it simple

Family meals don’t need to be elaborate three-course feasts. Quick, wholesome meals can be just as nourishing—both for your body and your family bond. Think one-pan dinners, slow cooker meals, or throw-it-together platters with protein, veggies, and whole grains.

2. Invest in a good blender to save time

The Vitamix A3500i Blender is a top choice for busy families. It cuts down prep time, helps you whip up healthy whole-food meals in minutes, and makes it easy to sneak extra nutrients such as veggies into kids’ meals. 

The five pre-set program settings and programmable timer mean that even when you’re in the thick of household chaos, dinner can still be ready on time (and taste pretty good). 

The Vitamix is your workhorse in the kitchen. You can throw most of your ingredients into the machine without chopping first, to save you time getting dinner on the table fast. It can whip up soups in minutes by tossing in roasted veggies, broth, and seasoning, or make everything from pasta sauces loaded with hidden veggies to hummus or guacamole for dipping.

3. Meal prep like a pro

A little planning goes a long way. Spend 30 minutes on the weekend chopping veggies, marinating proteins, or batch-cooking freezer-friendly meals. Prepping in advance means that when dinner time rolls around, all you need to do is assemble and serve.

Another great option is to throw all of your ingredients in the middle of the table and let your family create their own meals. This gives kids choice and makes it fun when all the family dig in, it’s also quick and easy for you to have dinner ready in minutes. 

4. Set a regular mealtime (and stick to it!)

Kids thrive on routine, and having a set dinner time each night makes it easier to prioritise eating together. Even if it’s not possible every night, aim for at least a few times a week when the whole family sits down at the table—no screens, no distractions, just quality time.

5. Embrace breakfast or lunch instead

If dinner is too chaotic, try making breakfast or lunch your shared meal instead. A quick smoothie bowl, eggs on toast, or a batch of homemade pancakes (your Vitamix can whip up the batter in seconds!) can be just as meaningful. Having a Vitamix High-Performance blender on your kitchen bench allows you to pull a few ingredients together for every meal of the day. 

6. Keep it fun and flexible

Not every family meal has to happen at the dining table. A weekend picnic, backyard BBQ, or even a casual “floor picnic” indoors can switch things up and make it more enjoyable for everyone. Find what works best for your family’s rhythm.

Wrapping it up


Parenting involves a lot of picking your battles. Every family will choose differently because every family has different needs. 

With that being said, eating together (in whatever way that looks like) is something worth fitting into your schedule. For you, for your little ones, and for the memories you’ll get to look back on together. 

Hopefully, these tips can help you make that possible.

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